How to massage the neck at home - this is how I do it without a massage table at home, because I dont want my relationship to feel like work. I massage her seated - or lying face up (supine) on the couch. Seated keeps your partners neck in a neutral position and gives you access to all the muscles of the neck allowing you to flow with large open handed massage strokes and also use specific and deep tissue techniques. | Melt: Massage for Couples